When you have a family of 11 children, you have a little bit of everything. We have had all the good stuff , ALL the bad stuff things you cant even imagine. We had my uncle who was cleaning a gun point it at my aunt in jest, point it at the floor and pull the trigger and it went off. Close call. We also have ppl like my mom and dad who did everything right. Always. My parents got married in 59 and before having children were taking care of my aunt who was a baby at the time. My grandpa got really burned and Cathy was just a baby so mom took her and grandma stayed with grandpa in the hopsitial. He got burned over his arms and neck and chest . He always wore long sleeve shirts after that. Didnt talk much about it. He was under a gas station that somone didnt turn off and it blew up. My uncle pulled him out by his arms which he said the skin was hanging off. Its hard to believe he lived. I remmeber seeing a pic of him sitting in a white hospital bed without a shirt with black down his arms where his shirt didnt come and on his face up to where he had his cap on. He lived to his nineties but he wouldnt budge on those shirts. The only thing you really couldnt ask him was birthdays. He thought my mom’s birthday was on the 7th of decemeber for yrs .. her birthday was the 6th. The same thing has come up with an aunt of mine but this one is not grandpa’s fault. Hell, Im suprised they knew all their names. Took me 4 yrs.
I really have to tell this.. and this dosnet have anything to do with mom.. well, except through dad… its too priceless, it must be said., forgive me dad 🙂
I think I have made it clear my family was close. When I was growing up, that was certainly true. When we had holiday dinners the men tended to congregate in the living room watching ballgames and the women in the kitchen, cooking. My dad is kinda……reserved , type A personality. But every once in a while…………
It was Christmas day and we were at grandma’s for dinner. Mom and I had gotten dad a pair of Georgia boxer shorts with little Uga’s on them. I dont know why. He dropped his drawers in teh living room to show all the guys. Then I guess he got to feeling guilty, because he went in the kitchen and dropped his drawers again to show all the women. I mean literally dropped his drawers to his ankles. I thought it was sweet he liked my gift so much but really, its okay. They still get a laugh out of it.